Friday, July 18, 2008

barefoot and pregnant?

Yesterday I tried to go to the movies without any shoes on. :D

EDIT: It was an ACCIDENT. And I figured it out before we made it out of the apartment building.... :P

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Happy 4th anniversary!

We're off to do whatever we darn well please together, all day. :)

Happy 4th anniversary!

We're off to do whatever we darn well please together, all day. :)

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Hallelujah!!!!

A small miracle has occurred: Today I went to the social security administration's office in downtown Portsmouth, found parking really easily, was in and out in twenty minutes, and....

They actually are changing my last name to Bowling!!

I flat-out don't believe it, but the girl who helped me swore I'd be getting my new social security card in the mail within two weeks. This is a big load off of our minds (well, mine at least), because we really did want to make sure that Baby Bowling was born to Mr. and Mrs. Bowling, not Mr. Bowling and Hey Mom, Why Does It Say Marshall Here On My Birth Certificate? I do think it's easier for little ones to get the idea of a family when everyone has the same name.

The reason this is such shocking and delightful news is that I waged a three-year war with Social Security in Oregon to no avail, and without getting into painful details, was told time and time again that I had done it wrong, was missing key documentation, was a bad bad person who may not in fact exist.... you get the idea. They were determined not to help me. Contrast this with New Hampshire's service and you get yet another reason to be happy we're living in this state!

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

baby classes

One of the services our doctor's office offers is a bunch of free classes on pretty much every aspect of prenatal care, birth, and newborn babies. Tonight we went to two classes: one on newborns and one on epidurals and C-sections and the various medication options that come with the various birth options.

Let me tell you, I don't think you could ever create a more compelling argument for natural birth, personally tailored for me, than the epidural/C-section class! They showed pictures of the needles involved, a real c-section, and all sorts of stuff. It was definitely very informative.... and since I'm MORTIFIED of anything to do with needles, took a large number of options off the table in my book.

The good news is that there are milder, much less obtrusive ways to still get some pain relief if it's needed. The guy doing the presentation even made a point to mention that breathing and relaxation techniques totally do the trick for some women, so he advised us all to learn about those and not neglect them!

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

aha! Critter IS my baby!

We've been finding several things that make it really clear this is Alex's baby--like the fact that eating Chef Boyardee out of the can is suddenly NOT a weird/gross concept to me.

At last, I found one for me!

I went swimming at the lake near my sister's house and it was kind of a chilly day. I was getting in gradually, trying to accustom myself to the water, and everything was fine. I was only getting in the water for the belly-floating properties, or I wouldn't have bothered to face the chill!

Well, I finally just bit the bullet, dunked in to my neck ("it's not even cold afterward!" my mom and sister assured me...), and was instantly freezing--I didn't recover from the shock at all! The funniest part was that the baby instantly got all huddled up under my ribs, so tightly crunched and so far away from the outsides that you could press on my belly and not encounter baby anywhere!

After this I realized I should have known what would happen, since if I have a warm plate of food or a cat on my belly, Critter inevitably cozies right up to the warmest spot. :) Alex is doomed--I have someone on my side for thermostat settings!

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Alex's New Tech Blog

I did finally decide to create a blog for my technical explorations. Basically, I wanted to have it as a record of what I've done when I want to refer back to it. While few of you will actually be interested about the highly technical aspects of a project I'm working on, many of you would probably like to have some avenue where you can pose questions at me and get free answers/advice on tech subjects. Obviously, I'll discriminate regarding which questions to post and subsequently answer, however, I like to put useful information "down" into a computer so that it can be filed and found later if needed. I'm nerdy that way.



Here's the link: My Tech Blog